Red lipstick makes me feel like I could cut a man’s heart out with a high heel shoe and fucking eat it.

You either know what I’m talking about or you don’t 

Of course I am not worried about intimidating men. The type of man who will be intimidated by me is exactly the type of man I have no interest in.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, “We Shoul All Be Feminists”

If you suffer, it’s because of you. If you feel blissful, it’s because of you. Nobody else is responsible - only you and you alone. You are your hell and your heaven too.